What Is the Difference Between a Memorial and Funeral Service?

What is the Difference Between a Memorial and Funeral Service?
Families often ask us at Torres Mortuary about the difference between a funeral service and a memorial service. While both are ceremonies of love and remembrance, the key distinction lies in whether the body of the deceased is present. Understanding this difference can help families choose the service that feels right for them.
What Is a Funeral Service?
A funeral service is a traditional ceremony that takes place with the body of the deceased present, either in a casket for burial or prior to cremation.
Features of a Funeral Service:
- Body is Present: Open or closed casket.
- Timing: Usually occurs soon after death (within a few days).
- Rituals: May include religious rites, prayers, readings, music, and eulogies.
- Burial or Cremation: Often followed immediately by interment or cremation.
Funeral services allow family and friends to say their final goodbyes directly, often finding comfort in viewing or being near their loved one.
What Is a Memorial Service?
A memorial service takes place without the body present, focusing on honoring and celebrating the life of the deceased.
Features of a Memorial Service:
- No Body Present: Ashes or photographs may be displayed instead.
- Timing: Can be held days, weeks, or even months later.
- Flexibility: Families have more time to plan, often making it less stressful.
- Personalization: Memorials can take place in funeral homes, churches, community centers, homes, or even outdoors.
Memorial services are especially chosen when cremation has taken place or when families need time to gather loved ones from far away.
Choosing Between the Two
Both services share the same purpose: to remember, to honor, and to bring healing to family and friends. The choice depends on:
- Family traditions and cultural practices.
- Religious beliefs.
- Timing and scheduling needs.
- Personal preferences for how to remember a loved one.
Our Support at Torres Mortuary
Whether you choose a funeral service or a memorial service, our caring staff will guide you through planning with compassion and respect. We can help you customize every detail—from prayer cards and music to flowers and memorial products—so the service reflects your loved one’s life and legacy.
Torres Mortuary — Your Life, Your Legacy, Your Funeral, Your Way™.

